The way we feel Inside.

If you have experienced the feeling of never being able to live without someone, when they are gone; how do you move on without them?

Thinking that you could never take one breath without someone who you've lost is probably one of the toughest things to face. How do you admit that you long for that person every single day? How do you wake up every morning knowing that they are no longer in your life? How do you come to terms with the fact that when you're wondering they they're doing, in that same moment, they have no desire to know what you're doing?

Love is a tough emotion. We long for it, and then we get it and ironically we let it go, only to long for it yet again. Sometimes it is out of our hands, we cannot control what another person feels. But sometimes is has everything to do with us, and that's when we have to stop and wonder if we have done everything that we possibly could to keep the relationship strong. Love is only one emotion that a relationship needs, there are many other very necessary emotions which can hold a relationship together. You evolve into a couple before you really are a couple, and you feel beautiful emotions before Love. Those emotions should never be lost, because once they are lost, Love no longer plays a big enough role.

You have to Love the person that you are anticipating spending your life with. But you also have to lust them, inspire them, need them, long for them, adore them, guide them and be loyal to them. Love, without anything else, is just Love. And alone, it does not hold the strength of all of the other emotions combined.

Whether in love, out of love, looking for love or falling in love; Do it right, and if what you're feeling is true, never let them or that feeling go.

A new you

What does it take for you to see yourself as others see you? How do you achieve internal, and external happiness?

Happiness is all determined by our outlooks on life. We as humans always have and always will determine our own happiness. It is not up to others to give us the feeling of complete absolution of ones faults and overall contentment. It is only us who can understand the depth of our own happiness.
To rely on someone or something else to give us the happiness we yearn for, is not the gateway to personal euphoria.

Only those who can achieve their our OWN happiness, will in turn be genuinely happy.

What is a Friend?

My best friend inspired me to write about friendships.

A friend is someone who you can confide in. Someone you can talk to and get advice from. A friend is a true companion, someone who helps you along the way. A friend is someone who you can rely on, in even the worst of situations. Someone who puts your happiness before theirs, and hopes for the best for you at all times, no matter what. A friend is a soul mate, without them we would be lost.
Friendship stands for companionship, and companionship is all that anyone really wants. We want to be someone that others care for, and we want to care for others just the same. We are human, and we all feel the same. We all know what love and hurt feels like, and we know what comfort and respect feels like. It feels good, and it feels bad, and our friends can always relate. They are there to help, and we are there to help them in return.

"Maybe our girlfriends are our soul mates, and guys are just people to have fun with"
Sex and the City.

Shoes

A pair of shoes to a woman, Is the equivalence of sex for a man.

We do not know when it is appropriate to indulge in a pair of shoes, we don't have any sense of direction when we're first time buyers, we lose our breath and start sweating when we walk into a shoe store. We are absolutely infatuated with shoes, the accessory, what they stand for and how they make us look.

A pair of Guess heels on Amazon.com= $78.89 CAD (Doesn't ship to Canada)
Same pair of Guess heels on Shoes.com= $81.49 CAD
Same pair of Guess heels on Guess.com= $120 CAD (On Sale)

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Despair

How am I living life day by day knowing that I want someone else there with me? How do I wake up each morning wanting more and feeling incomplete?

I am 21 years old, I have experienced a lot of things, but of course not as many as I'd like to. I've experienced Love, Hatred, Despair and many, many other confusing and rewarding feelings. But what happens when all of those feelings are gone and you are only left with regret? What happens when Love and Hate have diminished, and all that is left is sadness? What am I to do when I wake up in the wee hours of the chilled morning and wish that someone I truly Loved was there beside me to keep me warm.

I am not ashamed to express my feelings, how I feel makes me who I am. I am sad, and I am lonely and I am extremely regretful of some of my past. I miss the way that I felt, I haven't felt that since and I don't know if I ever will. I don't know how to give myself to someone the way that I gave myself to him.

The saddest thing is that he doesn't acknowledge the fact that I am desperate for him. I just want him to see me, and understand me. To respond back to me and Love me. I know it's pathetic, I know it's low and it won't make him realize that there is someone out there who loves him, and loved him before any of this. But I still wish for it, so badly.

I want to be happy, and he is my happiness.