What makes us whole?
Is it another being?
An adventure?
An unexpected turn of events?
What makes us who we are and who we aspire to be?
4.26.2010
4.01.2010
What do you do.
I've been thinking all day about how to tell someone how much they mean to the world. How do you go about explaining the things that people love about a certain person? Is it possible that someone can never see themselves through a different set of eyes? Is it true that someone can never take a step back and observe what they're doing in that moment? Realize that what they're doing is making someone feel happy, loved and beautiful from all angles.
How does someone become so blindsided and jaded? Not ever understanding why one person feels adoration and completion towards them. How do you show that person how much they mean to you? How do you express the exact feeling inside of you?
We are so easily mislead by so many stereotypes in relationships. How is it that we have come to the conclusion that the best date is Dinner and a Movie? How have we gotten to the point that our most intimate, passionate state is when we're having sex? Why isn't the best date a walk under the stars on a warm night? And why are the most passionate and intimate moments not every minute of each day with someone that you Love?
The things that we do, and the way that we do them will determine the life of our relationships. If we decide that dinner and a movie is the ideal date because we think that we are happiest together in that moment, then no one can change that. If we think that having sex is the only way to feel that much passion and intimacy, then no one can change that. What we feel, what we know, and what we do are all very different things. We go about our daily lives together and we continue on this path, this journey, but we don't have a destination. We don't have a set range of feeling, we don't have a certain amount of time, we don't have only so much to give. We have an abundance of beautiful feelings and emotions to share, we have all the time in the world and we have everything in us to give.
There is no way around what you are feeling inside. How you choose to express those feelings will determine who you are as a person.
How does someone become so blindsided and jaded? Not ever understanding why one person feels adoration and completion towards them. How do you show that person how much they mean to you? How do you express the exact feeling inside of you?
We are so easily mislead by so many stereotypes in relationships. How is it that we have come to the conclusion that the best date is Dinner and a Movie? How have we gotten to the point that our most intimate, passionate state is when we're having sex? Why isn't the best date a walk under the stars on a warm night? And why are the most passionate and intimate moments not every minute of each day with someone that you Love?
The things that we do, and the way that we do them will determine the life of our relationships. If we decide that dinner and a movie is the ideal date because we think that we are happiest together in that moment, then no one can change that. If we think that having sex is the only way to feel that much passion and intimacy, then no one can change that. What we feel, what we know, and what we do are all very different things. We go about our daily lives together and we continue on this path, this journey, but we don't have a destination. We don't have a set range of feeling, we don't have a certain amount of time, we don't have only so much to give. We have an abundance of beautiful feelings and emotions to share, we have all the time in the world and we have everything in us to give.
There is no way around what you are feeling inside. How you choose to express those feelings will determine who you are as a person.
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